The Case For NOT Trying To Be The ‘Best Version of You’ “Become The Best Version of You!” - The war cry of many a personal development program, self-help book and wannabe guru. Like the majority of messages emanating from this space, on the face of it, this call to arms would APPEAR to be a positive and uplifting statement. I’d like you to consider that perhaps it’s not. The subtext of ‘become the best version of you’ is that currently, you are a lesser version of you; failure and poor … [Read more...] about The Case For NOT Trying To Be The ‘Best Version of You’
It’s now almost 2 years since my journey into ‘what does it really take to be happy and successful’ began and it’s been one hell of a wild ride. For the whole of that time period, apart from my coaching clients and some side projects, this has been my full time “job”. Not a day has passed in that period that I didn’t go to work. What they say is true though. When it’s something you love and are passionate about, it’s not really work. When you dedicate over 700 days of your life to … [Read more...] about The Problem With Most Personal Development Programs & Why You’re Not Getting Results
In this blog post I would like to take a look at a phrase often bandied around - ‘woo woo’ and offer some thoughts, useful ones I hope, probably with a little rant thrown in for good measure. If I said what is ‘woo-woo’ stuff to you, I’d bet you would point to what is often referred to as content, ideas, and beliefs that emanate from what is dubbed the ‘new age movement.' The term ‘new age movement’ is ironic, considering that much of the basis for what flows from that sector has been around … [Read more...] about What Is & What Isn’t “Woo Woo” Really?
When is the right time to make a change? When is the right time to quit your job? When is the right time to leave a relationship? When is the right time to be more you? … [Read more...] about [Video] When Is The Right Time To Make a Change In Your Life?
In this post, we will be taking a look at step 4 of the 5 steps to living fearlessly and having it all which is The Vehicle. This step follows very closely on the heels of the previous two, the vision and the design, and is an extension of them. In the previous posts you were given two exercises to complete. You did do them didn’t you? If not, NOW would be a good time ;) You created your perfect day, and then you created your life accounts, stated your envisioned future, checked in on … [Read more...] about The 5 Steps To Living Fearlessly & Having It All – part 4